Start with what matters to you. Not what Pinterest says. Not what your venue suggests. Just you. Then add in the things that actually make it official: your ceremony, signing the license, first dances. That’s your foundation.

When couples reflect back, the memories they return to are the ones that felt unfiltered, unscripted and entirely their own.

One of the most common things couples tell me before their wedding day is “We’re not very good at posing.” If that thought has crossed your mind, you’re not alone—and more importantly, it’s not something you need to worry about.